Be reminded that He is sovereign over all.
When we get there it will all make sense. We'll see even the most unjust events of time made right in eternity.
He uses the oddest things to bring about His will and to reveal Himself. He uses illness, birth defects, tragedy and poverty. And in particular, He allows unfairness and misunderstanding. When our children go astray, it is beyond unbearable.
It is all His business.
Can He really be trusted, or do we only talk and sing about the Everlasting Arms?
You are a Soldier of The Cross, and that means you have made the decision to take up The Cross and follow hard after Him. Are you willing to let Him do anything with your life?
When you tell Him He can do anything with your life, there is a release and a broader grace to endure things that can't be avoided.
We bring much on ourselves, but there are always things that are so unfair and twisted, words can't completely describe them.
Every day and every hour by prayer. Deal with matters in prayer and then be vigilant about your thoughts. Most people live in the thought life instead of the Now.
Soldier, keep moving in the Light of God's Word.
Trust Him, and tell Him so. Aloud.