If you have to get recognition of how much you have suffered, you have no understanding of The Cross.
Soldier, in all of the human experience, it is not possible to make a comparison between what you have been through and what He went through.
The beauty is, He understands. All that we go through, He has experienced.
We have a Savior who has tasted it all and understands. It is not possible to tell Him something that He does not understand.
In the Kingdom of Heaven, there is no room for you to feel sorry for yourself.
Brace up. Look at Him. Take hold of The Word.