If you go church shopping, you can find almost anything you want.
There are large churches that have MacDonald's golden arches inside the walls, with accompanying huge playroom. There are churches that promise health and wealth. There are churches that guarantee a religious experience.
And, here and there, there are churches that encourage the believer to look at Jesus. To want to be with Jesus. To want to be like Jesus. To want to be used of Jesus. To want to reflect Jesus. To want to Love Him.
Those who have genuinely fallen in love with Him recognize and seek out others who have also tasted this Love. And, when they get together, there is a supernatural unity, because the priority in each heart is the same.
Man looks on the outside. But He who looks on the heart knows of the desire for Himself, and He honors this in a unity of the Spirit that ushers in the power of praying in His name. Hence the famous verse that says:
Where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.–Matt. 18:20
Soldier of The Cross, you have been called to look away from all that distracts and gaze upon Him.
Concentrate. Concentrate on the Lover of Your Soul. Put all you have into the only place where there is eternal investment - the Everlasting Arms.
Seek out those who want the same thing. Then pray together and watch the Lord work.