Is it what others think of you? Is it financial security? Is it control over your spouse? Is it the need for a mate? Is it physical health? Is it success?
Soldier of The Cross, all these things must be left behind. After all, what does it mean to be dead to the world and alive unto Christ?
Spiritual maturity means agreeing with God.
Get into the Word.
What is your specific situation? Believe me, you will find the answer in The Word.
He wants you to lean on Him. Wait for Him. Trust in Him.
There is nothing else. There is no one else!