Make sure you do not have a critical spirit. Some indicators are: Unkind jokes or comments that seem harmless, but indicate a resentment about the circumstance; The inability to see the situation without thoughts of negativity; Lack of prayer about the thing that irritate you; Constant attempts to balance the situation in private conversation. Soldier of the Cross, understand that the Lord does many things around you, for you, and through you that are beyond your understanding and outside of your pleasure. Stand before Him. Discuss it with Him, and let it go. Do not solicit support from your spouse. He who died for you is awaiting your approach. He will bring you release. |