It is His call.
Have you determined that He knows best? Have you told Him that He can do anything He wants to with your life? Have you told Him that your heart is to be a Living Sacrifice according to Romans 12?
Soldier of The Cross, who is calling the shots? You? Your children? Your parents? Your friends?
Hallelujah that we have the Word of God. Soldier, we will all stand before the Throne. Make sure your goal is to hear " Well done, good and faithful Servant. . . "