There is a popular misconception that those who "get it together" no longer experience personal problems and are able to avert the unpleasant at every level.
God's Word does not substantiate that.
The fact is, no one gets it together. It is not about self-improvement and self-protection It is about the Lord and submission. Those who are Soldiers of The Cross are agreeing with God, acknowledging His sovereignty and they deal differently with the things that come at them than those who struggle for control.
Peter stepped out in faith. When he diverted his attention to the howling winds and danger, he started to go down. He called to the Lord and immediately the Hand was extended for rescue. We are not told much after that, except that they climbed into the boat (Matt 14:22-33.)
You were not designed to be independent.
You were not designed to figure it out.
Just because you are His, it is not intended that you should always look like a winner.
Soldier, buck up! You must submit in prayer and agree with God. Also, you must thank Him for the hard things. Yes, we pray about circumstances and God hears and intervenes. Nevertheless, the design is not for Time, but for Eternity.
Agree with Him. Aloud.