We sometimes pray as though He doesn't understand.
Remember, He is gracious. He who is our Advocate has tasted the gambit of human pain, sorrow and fear.
Soldier of The Cross, He eagerly welcomes your prayer. He is a Listener beyond description. And, He has made a Place for you that will lift you beyond all agony, into his Presence forever.
It's just that we have to take His Word for it. Whatever He allows now is in preparation for our eternal delight and Victory.
Pray in trust, not distrust.