The Valley of The Shadow of Death feels like The Valley of The Shadow of Death.
It doesn't feel like bright sun and balmy breezes.
So often, well-intended comments indicate that those who have yet to walk through that place have no idea how the Lord deals with us in the hardest times. To the suffering one, they suggest the Lord can and will relieve distress and replace it with an experience of delight.
Saints who have fled to Him for refuge during the darkness find that He draws their attention to His Sovereignty.
To His Faithfulness.
To His Love that never lets us go.
To His Word that confirms His constant attention to the matter.
To His assurance that He is preparing a Place for us.
Soldier of The Cross, He has not appointed us to a gleeful experience 24/7. He has appointed us to take up The Cross and follow Him. Wherever. Including the Valley of The Shadow of Death.
The joy of The Lord is experienced by those who have gone after Him no matter what, and found Him to be ever present, and ever faithful and with arms always open.