There is no perfect church.
There are those who try everything, looking for just the right balance of teaching, youth groups and or experience. More often than not, these Christians are hunting for something they will never find - the kind of church in which they thought they were comfortable once upon a time.
Then, there are those who are hunting, because they have been in prayer and are looking for a place to love, minister, pray and lay down their lives for the Brethren.
Soldier of The Cross, if you have not found the right place yet, the Lord will lead you somewhere. Be there every time the door is opened. Be of prepared heart before the meeting. Sing vigorously. Greet all, whether you feel like it or not. Give cheerfully.
Remember, when a seed is planted and dies, Life springs out of it.