Do you have any idea how dangerous is gossip?
It is incredibly seductive in that the flesh loves to hear about irregular events in the lives of others. In fact, there is little else more interesting. But you are a Soldier of The Cross and you know better.
How about this:
“Do not let unwholesome foul, profane, worthless, vulgar words ever come out of your mouth, but only such speech as is good for building up others, according to the need and the occasion, so that it will be a blessing to those who hear you speak. . . .”
Ephesians 4:29 (Amplified Bible)
Soldier, the biggest problem happens when someone else wants to tell you something you know does not line up with the instruction concerning what you should hear.
Develop a backbone that will enable you to say you do not want to hear this, or in the alternative, perhaps the Holy Spirit will give you a gracious out.
Determine you will not be part of this corrupt dialog and refuse it no matter what it takes. Perhaps this is new to you.
Take it to the Lord and let Him know you are available to learn to refuse to participate in this sin.
Tell Him Aloud.
Then, go find someone to love!
IT is incredibly seductive in that the flesh loves to hear about