Love takes no account of an evil done to it. . .
Is this really true?
My favorite thing about the Lord is that He gave Himself as a ransom for many - for those who did not care and for those who would have loved to see Him suffer in a far more barbaric manner.
But, He gave Himself willingly and resented nothing.
Soldier of The cross, a great deal of time is wasted in an effort to falsely balance the scales. Even the most stalwart can be caught in the mental gymnastics of getting even. Self-defense.
Ever catch yourself talking to the offender? The offender who is not present?
Love. He who is Love is eager make His likeness in us.
Is He attractive to you?
Let Him lift you up and plant you in the Sabbath Rest.
Let go.