Soldier, misunderstanding is one of the most difficult situations in life.
So, you must go to The Word. What does God say?
You are not to be offended. You are not to rush in without prayer. Prayer that is in agreement with God is a protection against self-serving goals.
The most important thing is to refrain from heavy-handing the situation. If there is deliberate and honest prayer that agrees with God’s Word, there will be perspective, and there will be a Place to be while the matter is being resolved.
We live in a fallen world. We are sojourners and pilgrims, which means that there can be no investment in the things that would encumber the pace.
You are a Soldier of The Cross. That means that your eyes are fixed on the Lord Jesus. It means that you know with Whom you will spend eternity. It means that you know what things are of the most value.
Make sure you are immersed in His Word. Study. Memorize. Read the biographies of those who have gone before.
Pray aloud. Pour out your heart to the One who holds the stars in place.
There is nowhere else to go.
There is no one else.
Be reminded that you have been rescued because of Love.
Love went to The Cross.
Love named you.
Love is preparing a Place for you.
The Rock of Ages is not moving. Rest your all on Him.