I used to have a sign on my university office door that read "for God so loved the world, that He did not send a committee."
Someone stole the sign. But to this day I am still convinced that the things of the Lord should not be run by taking the average of the available, strong opinions.
So much of the time, strong opinion is offered to leadership because someone is bothered by something. The annoyance is usually compounded by impatience, and by that time there is no room at all for the Holy Spirit. The flesh has taken a corner in the ring and is dancing to spar.
There is no such thing as perfect leadership and if God has appointed the leader, there will be humility. If God has appointed the leader, it is evidenced in his or her faithfulness. It is also evidenced in the spiritual growth of those around.
There should be room to say the thing that ought to be said. There should also be wisdom and restraint to the extent that it is sight, and not offense or worry that offer the opinion.
Soldier of The Cross, we are not left to figure things out. We can go before the Throne of Grace and ask for wisdom and guidance.
Does He listen?
Is He interested?
Is He able?
Isn’t it His Church?