What do you do when someone comes at you with juicy gossip?
What does the Bible say? Is there aggressive criticism?
Soldier of The Cross, stop. The level of interest does not negate God's Word.
Soldier, come before Him with regard to your availability in terms of being a Soldier of The Cross. What does it mean? What is the cost? What will please Him?
Speak to him about it. Aloud.
Today.