Time with the Lord:
When a believer spends time with the Lord, he changes.
And just like the Glory that was reflected on Moses' face, the one who prays and prays privately, in his own language (not tongues) bears about him the Glory of the Lord.
Over time, he becomes less interested in seeing things fixed and more interested in bringing the broken to Jesus. He becomes calm.
He listens well. He is tender, but not squishy.
He has a reordered sense of priorities.
He has fallen in Love with the Lover of his Soul!